Posted on Leave a comment

“Freakum Dress”

We had been on the road for 9 days. From vacationing in Jamaica to games in Connecticut. As we finally head home I play Beyoncé’s live album, “Freakum Dress” comes on and I playfully seduce my husband as he drives, he glances over and can’t help being drawn into my playful sexy energy. This is me, this wildly playful Island girl who desires to love deeply, be enjoyed, be immensely, intentionally and confidently sexy. I consider how far I have come along my journey as I wine in my hips in the passenger seat, loving his momentary glances and sweet sly grin.

This growing confidence about me is more than slipping into a dress. If I don’t like the woman I am in that dress, then what? Over time my body has changed for better and worse. My husband loves me in and out and that love is deeper than what I wear at any given time. This is about self. It’s about how passionately, freely and deeply I love and appreciate myself. I love myself enough to enjoy this one body and this one life despite what the scale says, how the doctor defines my size and what society accepts as beautiful.

In her poem The Summer Day, Mary Oliver asks “tell me what is it you plan to do with this one wild and passionate life?” I plan to live it fully, live it wildly. Drinking the joy of every moment until I am drunk, push every limit, make everyone uncomfortable as I explore what it means to be me, to be beautiful, to be sexy, feminine and strong. This is where I find my best self. This is where I live my best life. I’ll put all of me into that freakum dress and slay!

Posted on Leave a comment

Orgasmic Art: Divi9 Yoni Experience

Join us for an artistic expression of self-love

& conversations of the coveted “O”.

Sponsored by The Yards

August 9, 2018 at The Yards 
50-52 Public Market, 14609
6:30pm to 8:30pm

Does my sexiness upset you?
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I’ve got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs?

Maya Angelo


Join brave and bold women such as yourself, yes YOU! As we dive into sacred conversations in a safe space. Lets establish sisterhood through sharing the evolution of our journeys and depths of our uniquely beautiful orgasmic lives.


Express the flow of your Orgasmic energy Center. Release into your sensual and feminine self. Explore and learn methods to identify and clear blockages in your sacral chakra; “the source of both types of ‘conceptions,’ imaginal and biological.” Book of Stones

Posted on Leave a comment

Yoni Experience!

You have heard about, have been curious and maybe a bit skeptical 🤔. Watched a thousand YouTube videos and have become a follower of everything with the word Yoni in it! You still don’t get it 🤷🏽‍♀️. You bought an egg and now you’re question is what to do with it?

Promo code: DIVI9

Cohost: Devin Anglin – @kingdevdoe


Posted on 1 Comment

This Dynamite Feminine Energy

I am woman and I exist

my period exists it is not too much

I am not too much

I am more than a monthly bitch!

Minute to minute

EMT’s respond with support when

A victim is injured

stopping the flow of blood from arteries.

But my blood, my blood I am taught should never touch MY hands

I learned the universal method

for dealing with MY magic.

Today I pour it from my cup,

I watch it drip between my fingers.

It is as rich as my soul.

I draw a heart across my chest,

Because I am super woman!

My power, my magic?

I am love!!

I am woman it is my blessing to bleed.

My entire existence gives life,

my entire existence creates life!

…created two beautiful lives.

I am woman and I exist

I am not nor is my blood

a thing to be hid in a corner,

only spoken of when deemed appropriate.

Your comfort violates me,

Your comfort diminishes me,

Your comfort is not my priority!

I am woman and I exist.

Don’t demand I hide pieces of my being.

I rule this universe,

This dynamite feminine energy!

I will not hide pieces of my self!

I will love the sacred,

The Divi9 within me.

How often do you remove your crown? How often do you question your right to be amazing? How often do you question the age appropriateness of believing in magic. Own your magic!!

Posted on Leave a comment

Bold & Beautiful Part 2

I look in the mirror and I see her there. The bold beauty growing within me, shining through the pupils of my eyes. She is a simply Divi9, she is a Goddess!

Believe it or not initially I had such a hard time with that word, “goddess”. It struck me as too audacious. I had a natural curiosity about this feeling and so I played with the word almost daily. Grace called me goddess each time we spoke and each time it ruffled me, gave me a sinking feeling of disconnection. Who is this goddess?

It’s finally feeling like spring here! Believe it or not I began writing this post two weeks ago and felt certain that I would post “on time”. However, with so much going on in life and being over the extended winter I simply could not get back in the mood to write. As I write I am half naked on my deck! Who cares who is looking! That carefree passion is symbolic of my goddess.

Goddess revealed

I discovered my goddess energy stepping out of a luxurious shower one night. I had inserted my yoni egg prior to showering and had a few trial sized products from @simplysimonenaturals. She made me a coffee scrub that was to die for! I feel orgasmic just thinking about it! After applying it in the most mindful and careful manner, massaging and simply taking the time to fully breathe, to fully experience my shower and this new scrub, I felt radiant. I know what you’re thinking, girl you were massaging a bit too much! I promise it was not the case… this time. It is a sensation that has stayed with me. An embracing of my feminine and divi9 energy, a knowing and acknowledgement of my beauty and grace, a release, a liberation.

Learning to grip and release is an essential part of your Yoni egg journey. Like learning to drive, you must be skilled at both reversing and driving forward. Learning to grip, comes with the counterpart of learning to release.

Do what now?

The easiest way for me to describe how is, on your inhale you grip and on the exhale you release. You are not at this point releasing the egg fully. As you release and grip it is more like… playing catch with your pussy… or hot potato… no bad example. Keep the egg in ok! At first that is an honorable goal! As you grow stronger you will be able to practice more advanced skills like moving the egg up and down, still using the grip and release method but with a more skilled use of your muscles.

My pussy does tricks

With this increased strength comes increased pleasure! The same skill with which you massage and manipulate the Yoni egg can be used in both self pleasure and sex with your partner.


There is a natural increase of awareness that takes place when you focus on developing and embracing your inner goddess and use your Yoni egg 3 to 4 times per week. Awareness and mindfulness play a huge role in your orgasmic life! With such busy lives it’s easy to overlook this important detail!

With all this being said! Please look out for my upcoming two day Yoni egg experience! It is so much better, so much more fun to have these convos with you goddesses in person!

I want to give you tools for your own journey that I have found to be amazing! There will be two options for the experience, one with an egg and one without. This will be Divi9, don’t miss it! May 25th and June 1st. Look out for more info this week!!!

Be radiant!!